ZOMG there's cussing... [hardly]

Funerals aren't unpredicatable.
They're the furthest from it.
You don't get a pastor that tells you they don't know if the deceased is going to heaven or not.
But that is the very cold,
very hard,
truth.
Some people don't go to heaven.
The very cold,
the very hard truth.
Everyone knows it in the back of their minds... but its never something that is publicly spoken- it isn't something asked to the family.

Joseph Haeger- You can not say "bitch" at a young man's funeral, the old people don't like it.

A veiwing is never necesary,
you don't need to see the body of someone you love...
who doesn't look like the someone you love...
who isn't the someone you love.
Take me to any funeral and when the family gets up there my jaw is tight.
Dam the first tear as it leads the path for many more.

Rest in Peace Ryan Joseph Emery

RIP

Ryan, it was hard to be thankful for so many things yesterday when all I could think about was what your family and closer friends were going through.

You got me thinking about Candace, Chaney, and even Jaimey. It is hard losing friends, sometimes, I think it's harder than losing family...

RIP
to all of my loved ones, there are too many to list, sad... but true.